Controversial social media influencer, Saidaboj, has set Twitter and Instagram buzzing after giving candid advice to women who point to actress Regina Daniels’ marital drama as a reason to avoid wealthy partners.
In a video she shared online, Saidaboj reaffirmed her long-standing view that women should marry financially stable men, cautioning that poverty does not guarantee kindness, loyalty, or love. She warned her followers against using Regina Daniels’ marriage struggles as an excuse to “settle” for less.
“Regina Daniels’ case is not an excuse for you to marry a poor man,” Saidaboj said in the video. “Trust me, their own is worse. A poor man’s wickedness is even more painful. When you divorce, you won’t leave with anything. Some of you say, ‘Let me just manage my poor boyfriend,’ but how is your poor boyfriend treating you? A narcissist is a narcissist. A wicked man is a wicked man, whether poor or rich.”
The influencer also addressed critics who accused her of pushing women to “marry rich.” She explained that her advice isn’t about promoting materialism, but about stability and peace of mind.
“All those people coming to my DM to say, ‘Have you seen Regina’s case?’ because I tell women to marry rich men — listen, if you are poor, go and work for your money. Don’t use Regina as an excuse,” she added.
Saidaboj’s comments quickly went viral, sparking heated debates online. Many netizens agreed with her point that wealth doesn’t automatically make a person good or bad, while others argued that her message undermines emotional connection and values in a relationship.
The video:
https://www.instagram.com/reel/DQy62vgjbpW/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link&igsh=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==
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