Reality TV star Doyin David recently shared her views on financial independence for women, emphasizing the importance of not relying solely on a man for financial support. This advice came in the wake of Linda Ikeji’s declaration about her choice to achieve wealth independently, without depending on handouts from men.
Doyin, a former Big Brother Naija housemate, warned women against marrying without having their own money. She agreed with Ikeji’s stance, urging women to strive for their own financial independence. Doyin’s comments highlight the broader message of empowerment and self-sufficiency for women in relationships, advocating for a balance where both partners can support themselves financially.
She wrote;
“The biggest mistake you can make as a young lady is depending completely on a man. Attaining independence should be the first thing on your mind….before love, marriage or kids. MONEY FIRST!
If you don’t have your own money, a reasonable amount of money saved up. You’re NOT ready for marriage and most definitely NOT ready to have kids. You need your own money!!
Even when you have your money sef, after marriage just have one child first and watch what type of father he is before you start giving birth like a chicken. Only have the number of kids you know you can afford to cater for on your own. Life happens!
Don’t ever believe that lie of divorce is not an option because it is! We don’t pray for it but life happens. There is no better back up plan than having your own money! Not your husband’s money, YOUR OWN MONEY!”
