Big Brother Naija alum and disc jockey, Tolani Baj, voices her opinion on the disrespectfulness of inquiring about a woman’s sexual history, noting that she personally has a low body count.
Speaking on the Bahd And Boujee Podcast, which she co-hosts with actress Moet Abebe, Tolani Baj emphasizes her belief that questioning a woman about her body count is inappropriate. However, she adds that discussing relationship histories with partners is acceptable.
Tolani Baj said, “If a partner asks me about my exes, relationship history, I’m okay. But something I won’t answer is body count. I feel like, ‘What’s really your business?’
“My body count is not high but I still feel like it’s disrespectful to ask a woman about her body count. It’s not because I’m ashamed to say the amount, it’s just like, ‘Who do you think you’re to be asking me that kind of question?’”